b. 1842
d. 1897-11-02
Flora Amelia Ross was born in
1842 on
San Juan Island to Charles and
Isabella Ross. She married a man who was a
rowdy — ignorant — hoodlum
and who often abused her. She left and divorced him in
1870 through the courts of
Washington Territory before divorce was truly legal. Subsequently, she changed her name back to her family
name and informally changed the name of her son of whom she took sole custody.
In the year of her divorce, Ross was appointed matron of the
Victoria jail. Her position primarily consisted of looking after
three women lunatics.
In
October 1872, she moved to the newly opened Provincial Lunatic Asylum, which was located on the
Songhees Reserve.
Ross remained in
Victoria until
1878 when the asylum moved to
New Westminster; she and her son also moved there. During her position as matron at the new asylum
in
New Westminster, she often suffered racism and harassment from her supervisors and co-workers. In
1874, the superintendent of the asylum, E. A. Sharpe, demanded Ross's resignation — she
refused. She was subsequently accused of
insubordination, theft, infractions on asylum rules, and visiting 'half-breeds.'
Throughout the harassment and racialization she received, she continued to stand-up
for herself and the women deemed ‘half-breeds.' She never lost her position and Sharpe
was dismissed.
Ross was entirely self-taught on the subject of mental therapeutics and known for
using the minimum of mechanical restraints
on her women patients compared to what was used on male patients. She never used
regular straight-jackets on her patients because they caused asphyxiation of the person
wearing them. When she was asked about this practice, she replied: if my medical superintendent was to order me to put one on my patients [...] I should
deliberately and cooly disobey him.
Ross was very successful in her position, by 1893 she had four assistant matrons and 41 patients under her supervision. In 1897, she became ill with cancer, after several months of sickness she died, on 2 November 1897, at the asylum that she had dedicated her life. After her death, the majority of Ross's assets went towards the Church of England,
her female friends, and her patients. Flora Amelia Ross was a divorced-single working
mother as well as a hardworking and giving person.
- 1. Mary-Ellen Kelm, Ross, Flora Amelia (Hubbs), Dictionary of Canadian Biography; Introduction, Flora Amelia Ross: A Brief Biography.
- 2. Kelm, Ross, Flora Amelia (Hubbs).
- 3. Ibid.
- 4. Ibid.
- 5. Ibid.
- 6. Ibid.; Introduction, Flora Amelia Ross.